BGR

Well in a way I am feeling a bit funny inside to witness many of my students growing up infront of me. Most of them are going through a phase I coined as the BGR (BOY GIRL RELATIONSHIP)phase.

Remember guys, I have gone thru what you all are going thru now. The difference is I did not have somebody older to talk to when I was your age. You all know you can come and talk to me if you are facing problem in this area.

Do not ever think that your BGR problem only happens to you. Right now you may be attracted to almost everyone of the opposite sex. Whenever any of you feel that someone is showing interest in you, you think yes this is it...

Do not easily commit yourself to anyone right now but this does not mean you cannot go out on a date, right ? Explore and enjoy each other company but always be careful of the "LUST" factor. At all cost do not engage in any bodily contact that can arouse "LUST". We are lucky that we have our religion to control us from doing any of the above.

Do not be overly concern if you have no steady boyfriend or girlfriend right now. Those in Macan always has each other for that shoulder to cry on. Enjoy our group activities that we have planned to do all year round and you may not even have the time for a relationship. Remember, having a relationship needs commitment and most of you have not even fulfill the commitment to yourself, let alone to commit yourself to someone else. Be patient and everything will fall into place nicely and when you are well ready for it.

Commitment to yourself is to make something out of yourself thru your studies and get that dream career that you have set your target. After that make your family happy by supporting them for a couple of years. Lastly, get yourself engaged to be married.

And of course, last but not least, ensure Macan lives on... HIDUP MACAN....